Am i useless?!

I think i'm very useless,cos whenever my friend has problem,i cannt find anyway to help her out...I dunno wad to do,all i can do is jus to listen to her and let her talk till her hearts filled...Am i useless???But i really dunno wad to do knw...Thinking through nights,but still dunno wad to say to my friend and make her feel better...Hmmm...
I have not contacted my another friend for weeks le,am i doing the right thing?I oso dunno,but recently i feel very peaceful,everyday staying at hime doing the things i want and nobody is there to disturb me...My grandma has her things to do and i oso have mine...When i'm bored,nothin to do,my sister will entertain me...Even my bro-in-law friends will entertain me,they are fun ppl...Although their whole body is full of tatto,but they are not fierce at all...They will onli be fierce when ppl bully their friends...They are a group of ppl with great sense of friendship...Although their mouth are also very irritationg,but i find them better compare to ... .. ..Cos its lyk no matter wad u say,they will onli show a black face when they not happy,but less than a min,they will be back to "suan" u...Hmmm,this is called real friendship...